tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2262055667994370618.post9117264954899239308..comments2024-03-28T19:59:20.737+02:00Comments on ixhanti lam: What if marriage wasn't anti-feminism?utterhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/08867361588236686988noreply@blogger.comBlogger2125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2262055667994370618.post-41969400884320698882013-07-27T06:37:02.613+02:002013-07-27T06:37:02.613+02:00That's interesting.Perhaps we could all learn ...That's interesting.Perhaps we could all learn from your family.utterhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08867361588236686988noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-2262055667994370618.post-89679453635609738062013-07-26T11:45:14.556+02:002013-07-26T11:45:14.556+02:00Interesting read! I had my lobola ceremony a while...Interesting read! I had my lobola ceremony a while back. It was eye opening and far from being patriarchal. Both my aunts and uncles were involved in the negotiations and they sat me down before the'guests' arrived and asked for my opinion on the amounts to be charged and livestock to be demanded etc. Afterwards, the money, in its entirety was given to my mother who raised me single handedly. I am Ndebele speaking, Zimbabwean. It could be just my family's practise, but I would like to think that our culture is evolving.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com